Tips to keep them wanting to spend more and more and more and more time getting
to know more about you. Whether she’s your date for the company picnic, the single
mom at the PTA who caught your eye or even the groovy banjo player you sometimes
meet at the coffee shop, make sure she sits up and takes notice. Here are some tips
to help you out.

Show Interest, not Desperation

Carefully balance your interest. You texted her and she didn’t text back? Wait for
a few days before contacting her again. She hasn’t told you when she’s free to meet
you? Hold on and wait for her. You need to show that you are Interested in a woman,

but not to the point that you scare her off.

Vary Your Appearance

What do you think she would like to see you in? Vary your look every time she sees
you, comb your hair. Shower. Dab on that cologne. Let her see you as a versatile,
well groomed man and keep her wondering what you’ll

wear next.

Don’t Tell All

Allow her to ask you questions and choose what she wants to know about you. Example:
you are talking to her and you get a phone call. Don’t end the call by telling her
who it is, and

why he or she called; give her an opportunity to ask you.

Balance the Conversation

Sometimes, you listen and nod understandingly when a woman speaks, and try to not
utter more than a monosyllabic word. Think about it- if she doesn’t hear

you talk, how will she get to know more about you? Listen as well as be heard.

Keep you on her Mind

Try to remind her of yourself, even when you aren’t there. Try these tips:

• Text her at lunch to see how her days going; give her a refrigerator
magnet

something she’ll display, appreciate and remember you by; something she’ll display,
appreciate and remember you by.

• Post-meeting/ date, send her a text telling her you had fun.

• Compliment her adding a personal twist. Example: that’s really
a nice outfit, blue is my favourite color”. That

way, when she wears the outfit again, she’ll think of you.

• Hint at things that don’t meet the eye, like that tattoo on your
chest or your skill with the piano. This will peak her interest for sure.

• Girls like someone who can make them laugh. Keeping her entertained
and happy will also make her

think about what you said later, when she’s with her friends or alone.